Maps are comforting.
They tell you where you are.
They show you where to go.
They reduce the unknown into clear directions.
For most of my life,
I lived by maps â
clear goals,
five-year plans,
predictable milestones.
But life has a way of taking the map out of your hands.
When the Map Became Useless
After the layoffs,
I had no plan.
I wasnât chasing a new title.
I wasnât updating my rĂ©sumĂ©.
I wasnât plotting my next move.
For the first time,
I wasnât moving toward anything.
And it felt wrong â
like I was wasting time,
like I was falling behind.
The truth is,
I had a plan.
When I started my MBA,
I intended to pivot into finance.
Before graduation,
I secured a full-time offer from a finance firm.
Two months before graduation,
that offer was rescinded â
canceled abruptly due to worsening market conditions.
The map I thought would guarantee my future was torn from my hands.
When the World Changed
And the world wasnât waiting for my plan to catch up.
Cloud technology was booming.
Tech was no longer a backup plan â
it was becoming the main stage.
Meanwhile, finance tightened â
weighed down by increased regulations,
growing more cautious and less dynamic.
The plan I made wasnât wrong â
it was simply no longer relevant.
It wasnât my failure.
It wasnât a miscalculation.
The world had changed its map first.And I had to change mine, too.
Moving Without Knowing
Slowly,
I realized that stillness was its own kind of movement.
I started listening â
to the silence,
to the small curiosities that pulled at me.
I learned to move without knowing exactly where I was going.
It wasnât efficient.
It wasnât linear.
But it was real.
Step by uncertain step,
the next chapter of my life began to reveal itself â
not because I had mapped it out,
but because I stayed open enough to find it.
Trading Control for Curiosity
Moving without a map isnât about giving up control.
Itâs about choosing curiosity instead.
Itâs about admitting:
"I donât know whatâs next â and thatâs okay."
Itâs about trusting that not all movement needs a destination.
Some roads are made by walking.
A New Kind of Map
When I joined a startup,
no one handed me a map.
"You have to draw it yourself."
At first, it was overwhelming.
I had spent years in big organizations
where systems, processes, and resources
were as invisible and essential as air.
At the startup,
none of it was there.
And thatâs where my creativity began.
Not by following a plan,
but by building the road beneath my feet.
Still Driving
Even now,
I donât have a perfect map.
I donât know where Iâll be in five years.
I donât know what title Iâll have.
I donât know what city Iâll call home.
But Iâve learned â
not knowing is part of the drive.
Itâs not a detour.
Itâs the journey.
Hop in. Letâs drive â together.
You donât always need a map.
You just need to keep moving.
Hop in.
Letâs drive â together.
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